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Sunday, December 09, 2007

Travel Destinations: Is it 'gay' or just fun?

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Someone recently asked on the DN travel forum:
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I'm looking for a warm, sunny vacation spot... Puerto Vallarta is great but the water is not, so if anyone has any suggestions as to where to go for a good gay time and nice weather and great water - let me know!!!
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Try looking through the past few weeks of threads on the DudesNudes travel forum or look at previous entries in the blog.
Also there are Yahoo groups for gay travel. Homo-A-Go-Go has lots of info; basically it's one guy sending a daily gay travel report and news), but it has a lot of great info (search the past ones at the group's home page).http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Homo-A-Go- Go/

Your destination depends on when, how long and how farm and how much you can spend.Hawaii (Honolulu for starters, and the outer islands for dessert)Palm Springs (CA) or Phoenix (Arizona) -- a lot warmer than Calgary but not near the ocean, Florida (Ft Lauderdale)Cancun (not too gay - but some great snorkelling and visiting Mayan ruins)Caribbean Islands Gran Canaria (Playa del Ingles - Maspalomas) - fairly warm in Dec - Jan (but water is not very warm). Brazil ArgentinaEven if it's winter, try an indoor gay vacation (Montreal, Vancouver (too close to home, eh?) or New York / Toronto could work for that, San Francisco, New Orleans in North America, or winter fares to Europe are cheap enough -- Paris, Berlin or Barcelona, Prague or Budapest. I got a cheap flight to Frankfurt on United/Lufthansa for March and am flying from there on cheaper air carrier to Gran Canaria.

Someone else made an important comment during the discussion:
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I'm curious. What is a gay travel destination? I usually find a destination that has activities in which I want to partake. I can usually find a gay club or nude beach or something in the area.
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I completely forgot about Sydney (and the rest of Australia)... how could I have left The Land of Oz out of the list!

I agree -- to a certain extent - with person's comment about what is a 'gay travel destination."

Some of the best 'gay' vacations I 've had have been far away from gay urban or so-called gay resort areas. However, I think the notion of gay travel implies there being a large(r) number or proportion of male (and LGBT) couples and singles gathered in one place. The social element is paramount for some gays -- go figure (LOL).

It also has something to do with the diversity-friendly ambiance, the number of gay-oriented venues (bars, clubs, accommodations, unbridled cruising spots), and the destination's 'queer fashionable' or gay-trendy status. I love it best when there is a travel destination where you can get to all those things/places just mentioned (or reasonably close), but you can also be close to nature - both for outdoor recreation and nudism/naturist activities.

Saturday, December 08, 2007

Flickr Dletd U? How to avoid an Unsafe Flickr account

I can think of a few things that might help protect your Flickr account - I can't really say this advice will keep your account from being deleted, but you know you don't want to have to keep creating a new account again. You say you won't come back to Flickr if you are deleted again, but you KNOW you probably will. So it's worth a try.


I think Flickr has a method to its madness. They don't just delete at random - -however, they may find members who are violating (or borderline) the Yahoo/Flickr Terms of Service (these are the Flickr 'rules' in very fineprint). They probably come across 'unsafe' Flickr members at random and then put you on their "watch" list. Then if you don't change or have another violation, then you might get deleted. Also, sometimes people (who don't like seeing your photos) make 'flag' a picture and these violations are kept in your Flickr (and Yahoo) records without you even knowing about them.
So how do you need to behave to be a Flickr membr in good standing?
The basic Flickr principles are probably something like this -- A) Follow the basic procedures. Know the rules. (Explained below). B) Do no harm - in fact, actively show you are trying to prevent any harm. (Explained below) C) Act like a real person who USES Flickr - not just a 'porn ghost.'
Each of the above principles is explained below and some suggestions on how to actually put the principle into practice are given.


A) 1) Have you set your Safety Level to 'restricted' and Content Filters to "Safe Search: off" ? 2) Check your account staus. What does Flickr say about your account? Safe, Moderate, Unsafe. You can see Your Account page info (including the settings in Privacy and Permissions I mentioned above) by clicking your Flickr id at the top of any page. The one that says "Signed in as _____". There are 4 tab pages.
At the top of "Your Account" page, it tells you how Flickr staff rate your account. If you have 'Moderate' or 'Unsafe', you'd better read the "What does that mean?" information soon.

B) Do no harm: Don't put pornographic or explicit sexual photos where minors (or just anybody COULD find them). It's not so important IF they HAVE found them , but whether they COULD. Your adult content photos should NOT be where they 'could' possibly be seen by underage minors (under 18) or other people who might object/complain. So , the first thing you should do is to make all and any of your pictures that have nudity or are explicitly sexual private (Of course, you can make visible on to friends -- like me).
Another thing is to NOT add your photos to any NON-private group pool of photographs. Some +18 adult Flickr groups are public and their photos pools are also public. Anyone can join (automatically) or look at their collection of group photos (pool) without restriction. Even if your photos are private, when you add them to a public group, they become viewable to all the members of that group. It's safest to join a private (invitaion only group) or a public group that has a MEMBERS-ONLY photo pool.

C) Flickr wants happy customers. If you are a NON-paying (free) member, you are not making them happy -- espeically if you pose a risk to other paying members. Their first priority is to make their paying customers free from worry and bother. However, non-paying members do add value to their company by bringing in people, who might or do join Flickr. So Flickr actually needs its non-paying members too. That's why they do try to bend over backwards to get people to 'restrict' their use of pornographic content. Flickr does not ban it unilaterally. (NOTE: A few countries have separate and stricter Internet access and search censorship rules - so Flickr must act according to those countries' rules: Germany, Singapore, Korean, for example).

So that means you have to act like a person who would someday (might) buy a Flickr pro account. Think about it from their corporate perspective a minute. I've heard a lot of deleted (and ultimately re-signed on Flickr member complain about Flickr), but if they hated it so much then why keep on coming back. The fact is Flickr does have a lot of offer (even as a free service - with the 200 photo limit), and being able to see so many great (and sexually provocative) pics is certainly one of them.

Flickr is a (hopefully for them) profit-making business owned by Yahoo. They boast about being the world's most popular photo-sharing site, but there IS strong competition. Remember that the Internet means business (making money). They want their users to be people who might actually 'buy' their services. So if you don't want to pay the $29.99 a year to be a 'pro' Flickr member, then at least try to act like one.

Here are some points to consider doing:

a) If all you have are net porn and no real photographs of your own, you'll look simply like a 'porn ghost'. Just a virtual identity only on Flickr to view and display Net porn. You should upload some real digitial photos (from a real digital camera) - if possible. These should not be pornographic (although they could be if properly restricted to 'private - friends only"), but some of them should be regular snapshots of travel or events in your city. These should be public.

b) Have a 'real' identity. Add something to your profile - (you don't have to reveal anything that you want to remain private). Just write a few sentences. If you can fill in some other info in your profile (you can be as specific or general (vague) as you wish. Join some public groups that are NOT just adult sex or porn photos.

c) Contribute as a Flickr community member. Comment on people's photos (and not just porn ones only), making favorites is OK, but how will you keep up with 100s or 1000s of favorites, anyway. Be selective. Participate in groups (and not just porn ones only), write testimonials (and maybe get some too). This way you appear to somebody who is using Flickr as it was intended so your review by Flickr staff will (likely) reflect this.

d) Make contacts responsibly. If it's not clear what a person's age is and you suspect that a Flickr member might be 1) under age 2) new to Flickr 3) not interested in your net porn pix, then by all means, do not make them a Flickr friend (who can see you 'private' pics).

You can first make then a contact (they cannot see your 'privates') until you know more about them. Or you can send them a Flickrmail and ask them make their age clear on their profile. This is probably where I make my own mistakes.. I usually check a person's profile to see if they state their age or make it clear that they are interested in photos with sexual content. For example, I look to see if their lists of other contacts (many times I recognize some of their friends), and I look at their photo content (if I've already been make a Friend by them first) or their lists of public groups (private groups are NOT visible to others). If they are brand new to Flickr - usually means no photos of their own, very few contacts and few groups, then I ask (politely) or just say it's not clear if they are 18 or over from their profile so I can't add them as a friend yet. Normally, it IS clearly stated or obvious. So I don't have to actually write them very often. But -- as I said -- I've probably made some mistakes - -although no one can fault you if you have 'friended' a person who has not been truthful about his/her age.


D) I suspect there may be other 'rules' or also other ways that Flickr 'flags' people as unsafe. For example, how many downloads of pictures you do may count. How many 'restricted' pics you upload (I have about 40,000 so it must not count that much against you). How many 'restricted' pics you make favorites? How often you change your Buddy Icon (and what it looks like may matter - especially if it's porno too).. How may complaints are received about your photos? This would definitely be a problem.

There are more hints inside Flickr, too. Check out the Flickr FAQ and "What does this mean?" (safe/unsafe account) for more details.


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Hey.. this was long - but I hope it will help. It helped me to have to try to get this all down in one place. I needed to get this written down so I just took the time to do it now. But I'll post it on my blog and refer people to it from my profile.
Hope you can get to be 'safe'....There's more to playing 'safe' than just wearing a condom (LOL).
Kelly