Forgetting when to conceal isn't accidental flashing, is it?

 

Whenever a group of people are enjoying a swim at a beach or swimming pool, there is a certain hesitation about nudity - often people are afraid of being the first ones to shed their clothes. It takes some guts to be the first one to get rid of the swimwear and see whether the others will follow suit.

In my experience, most often there will be other people who have been eager to do the same, so that almost immediately, you are surrounded by three or four other guys who are equally naked. But I have also had the other outcome: that I end up being the only naked guy in the whole group.

The first time that happened, it made me feel uncomfortable. But then I realized that it was worth the try anyway - and that being the only naked one also has its charms. I feel so much more naked when I'm the only naked guy, and this nakedness is a turn-on for me.

So nowadays, when I'm with a group of people where not everybody know each other, I still tend to be the first one to undress. It is still interesting to see how they will react, but I end up being happy both when my friends throw off all their clothes and when they decide to keep them on... (And it also turns out that there are often someone in the group who are quite happy to see me naked and who are more than willing to undress as soon as they get alone with me...) So my advice is clear: don't hesistate. Nothing bad ever came out of nudity.

  In England and elsewhere in Europe, it is totally natural and happens so often, it's 'hard' to keep track of. In America, the story is very different. In most of the US (except the right and left coasts), public nudity of any sort - whether rather innocent or flagrant -- is treated as a misdemeanor - a violation of civic laws. 

In England and elsewhere in Europe, it is totally natural and happens so often, it's 'hard' to keep track of. In America, the story is very different. In most of the US (except the right and left coasts), public nudity of any sort - whether rather innocent or flagrant -- is treated as a misdemeanor - a violation of civic laws. 

Damn, that puritan ethic (smile). But then again, absence of permission or of simply overlooking the obvious, sometimes makes the 'act' all that more exciting - I suppose. In Japan, where I spend most of my time currently, this kind of things happens as well. However, the main difference is the guys do try to conceal their privates while changing. Buttocks are not considered 'private' parts of the anatomy - especially for males. 

Well, it's not OK to exposed your butt in public walking down the street, but a little harmless arse-flashing happens amazing regularly on beaches, sports fields, parks, and in other public. 

Is CMNM an expression of sexual desire and submission?

Willoughby,  (response)

   I hope you know that size is certainly NOT everything when it comes to activity rank (LOL)!
Enthusiasm counts at least twice as much - and you have that in abundance.   By the way, that activity rank number is probably outdated by the the time they save  and sent out the Grou.ps updates.  Actually, I have nothing to do with it.   I am just wondering what the 'magic' numbers of users is before they start requiring subscriptions - like several of the large grou.ps are currently have to require for admission.

I'm traveling now. I getting a  bit of the type of CMNM experience I enjoy.. exposing 'accidentally' or nonchalantly to straight and or younger men.  Yes, I stripped for a shower at a public changing room on Waikiki Beach. None of the other guys took off their clothes - kind of ridiculous if you ask me. One guy was even try to washing his lower body while wearing cargo pants.

It was cool when two Japanese teenagers came in and got in the shower - of course, they kept their swimming trunks on the whole time, and even changed out of them by wrapping a towel around the waist and lowering their trunks, without exposing their butts or genitals.  I enjoyed being the only naked guy and made sure they had a chance to get some glances of my half swelled dick and butt.

Later, after going to the Max's Gym (gay sex club), I slept in the nude at my hostel. A nice Korean guy (aged 26) was opposite me. So when he got up before 6 to get ready to leave for Seoul, I made sure to have the sheet slipped down and my half-erect cock on display.

Send me the photo that you want for the 'submissives'  and I'll set it for your subgroup.
Best wishes and thank you very much for being an active member of our CMNM network on Grou.ps

Kelly (sunbuns)

On Sun, Aug 2, 2009 at 9:53 AM, Willoughby wrote:

Kelly,
 My Guys into CMNM weekly newsletter arrived with the message that I have an activity rank of 36.  I am nearly completely and utterly distraught.  I know my rank was 52 on my page a few days ago.  I go on the site daily to check every new member to see if they have any descriptions of CMNM interests to add to my compendium.

When I have time, I search the people entries for any hot admissions of desires or experiences in the realm of CMNM.

I started a new subgroup, submissives, and understand from something I ran across that the photo is not selected by the person who starts the group.  That is fine with me, but I am hoping that there will be a photo that is as hot as the one for the Japan group. Yow!   I have collected a few twink spanking photos I look at often.I would like, when I have gone through all of the submissions, a list of my favorite expressions of interest in CMNM on the subgroup page submissives.

Here is the bulk of what I have so far.  I estimate that I've gone through about a quarter of them.  (I also want to help to produce photos in which there is a clothed male and a naked one.  We need more of that for sure.)

..................................................................
I love watching naked men among clothed people

The kinkier the better, Forced nudity in front of as many clothed men as possible. Non consensual, forced,,, being forced to jack off etc.

love to be around naked men

I enjoy being clothed while in the presence of a nude male - either watching them, or actively participating in undressing and exploring them.

forced nudity, accidental nudity, candid/unknown voyeur

me on the stage at the audience

Love being naked in front of others     Being forced naked, humiliated

Being naked around dressed people and being played with
being naked in a room of clothed jocks

nude/submissive

I've been obsessed with being nude around other males since I was 11 years old but have never done it! It's brand new to me.

"I'm submissive and want to get naked."
" Guy, really into cmnm and forced nudity."
"Looking to be put on display for guys,"

expressing interest in: humiliation, master/slave, group
auctions
Being naked/Forced
.......................................................................

 I hope that there has been some horrible computer glitch and that I will find, as soon as the site is functioning on the people pages again, that my activity rank is back up there.

Love your work,
Willoughby

  

CMNM World Rendezvous Tour on Spain's Canary Island: Gran Canaria, March 18 - 22, 2019

The CMNM World Rendezvous Tour is now fully underway.  I am currently in Athens, Greece and there are just so many hot men, and so many places where a totally naked male body would not be at all our of place among the classical ruins of Ancient Greece scattered across this charming metropolis. It is one of the most scenically walkable cities. Every corner you turn is another gorgeous man or men in groups just begging to be photographed. I don't that many of  them would not turn down an offer to pose naked.

Although there were not participants in our Guys Into CMNM World Rendezvous Tour in Greece, I was able to get in a little CMNM viewing and showing in my hostel. I also spent Saturday night one of the local gay baths, Alexander Sauna. It is a clean and modern place and there were loads *after load - of hot men getting in on in the 4th floor maze.  I certainly my eyes, hands and other orifices full and fully pleasured. Early  next year in March 2019, I am off to Barcelona, Spain, for a brief sleepover stop at one of the popular hostels. Then leave on March 17 in the  afternoons for Gran Canaria and the flambouyant sex in the sand with naked and clothed guys galore at Maspalomas.
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cmnm-gathering-in-gran-canaria-march-16-23-2019-tickets-52439200059

Gran Canaria CMNM Meet-up March 18 - May 22, 2019

Gran Canaria CMNM Meet-up March 18 - March 22, 2019

For guys into CMNM - to meet, chat, and maybe hook-up
Sunday,March  18 -  Friday, March 22
 Nude Sunbathing and Sex Orgy in the dunes of Maspalomas, 10 am - 4  pm
March 18  - March 22
Cruising in the bars at Yumbo Centrum
Shopping Mall,   7 pm - 2am

Clothed Male Nude Male (CMNM) Gathering in Playa del Ingles, Gran Canaria, Canary Islands, Spain

Date &	Monday, August 5, 2016 - Friday, August 9, 2016 10:00 AM - 12:00 AM
Location:	The Cellar - gay cruise bar Basement of the Yumbo Shopping Center Playa del Ingles, Gran Canaria, The Canary Islands, Spain view map
	You are invited to attend and participate in the Clothed Male Nude Male (CMNM) Gathering in Playa del Ingles, Gran Canaria, Canary in August 5 - August 9, 2019  10:00am   to 12:00 am , 2019.  Clothed Male Nude Male (CMNM) Gathering in Playa del Ingles, Gran Canaria, Canary Islands, Spain

There are potentially hundreds of men interested in CMNM scattered everywhere. How many are there in and around Gran Canaria, The Canary Islands. area? If you are going to be in Gran Canaria on April 30, 2016 then make plans to attend one or several of the CMNM Weekend Festa.

See the details at: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cmnm-gathering-in-gran-canaria-march-16-23-2019-tickets-52439200059

Who can join: Legal adults (21 or older for most events).
Single males, couples or groups are invited to participate. Women are not barred from attending, but this IS a male - mostly gay or homosexual lifestyle - although some married couples (M/F) could possibly find it very stimulating.

Who will be there: Since it's just getting organized now (March 26), there's a good chance we'll have a dozen (or perhaps much more) men attending the private CMNM events. There's no doubt they will be fun and worth it: strippers, erotic dancers, naked waiters, and an assortment of exciting clothed male / naked male activities and games are planned. The rented hotel suites will also make a comfortable and elegant venue for some memorable excitement you will never forget.

What type of events: CMNM Gathering Welcome Party (at a private home or a rented hotel suite - clothing optional - of course), a Naughty Boy Costume and Role-Play in a suite of a D.C. hotel, a sleepover (with clothed and naked males in attendance), male strippers and uniformed hosts will be in attendance at several of the events. In the day time on Saturday and Sunday, you can enjoy several tourist excursions or some special CMNM events and tours: play nude poker, naked charades, a game of truth and dare, naked volleyball, and a CMNM wine-tasting and sushi party with both nude and clothed waiters.

To find out more, please go the the CMNM Gathering in Gran Canaria, please look at the invitation page at:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cmnm-gathering-in-gran-canaria-march-16-23-2019-tickets-52439200059

There you will find more details, and important the rules of expected behavior, and how to got about applying for an invitation to attend as a CMNM guests, or also how to apply for the few volunteer staff and paid performers (actors, dancers/stripper). No services of sex industry workers are being solicited.

Facebook CMNM Guys Group

To find out more, please go the the CMNM Gathering in Playa del Ingles, Gran Canaria, The Canary Islands (Spain) Invitation page at:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cmnm-gathering-in-gran-canaria-march-16-23-2019-tickets-52439200059

 

First Time Experiences with CMNM: How did it start?

One of the new members on the cmnm.tribe.net (private group) started a discussion recently.

           I'd like to hear about others guys' experiences with "innocent" CMNM, especially first times. Here's one of mine to get the discussion started:

        My first time real CMNM was maybe 6 or 7 years ago. First, let me say that I am str8-married but have always been at least bi-curious and then bi-discreet. So while this was not my first time messing with a guy, it was a first CMNM experience. I was on a business trip and looking around for a jo partner on line. Most every response wanted way more than I was looking for. One str8 guy got me chatting and told me about a scenario he'd like to play out, which we did.

        My friend came over to my room. He brought a six pack. it had been unusually hot and sticky and I had not showered yet after my business day. We enjoyed a quick cold beer together, and opened the second within a few minutes an hung out sitting on the only couch in the room. Half way through the 2nd beer, I said I had not showered yet and wanted to jump into the shower real quick sync I felt grimmy. He said sure. While I did not undress in front of him, he did sneak into the bathroom while was showering and took a peak or two while I was in the shower. I came out only in the rather small hotel towel. I just needed to cool down a bit more.

          At this point I sat in the chair opposite the couch and continued slowly sipping my beer. after a shower and almost 2 beers, I was feeling horny and sneaked a feel now and then. He pretended not to notice at first, but then gave me an encouraging nod.

 I let the towel drape open and let him see my growing member. I was feeling both embarrassed and comfortable at the same time. All the while, he had his shorts and t-shirt on. Then he said, nah, it's cool, so I just took the towel off and started to openly stroke, slowly. He wanted a closer look, so I sat on the coffee table in front of him, and then next to him on the couch. He played with himself through his pants, but I did not see his dick that first time although I really wanted to. i think being denied seeing him naked and hard was a turn on but also a bit embarrassing that he was just watching me masturbate. Of course, I got to a point where I tried to stop since I could not see his, but he egged me on and convinced me to shoot for him to watch. It was very cool to have to let my guard down and just be totally natural and do this private act in front of another guy.

posted by: David

• Kelly

  Re: Past Experiences and First Time

  
  

        It happened to me another way. I guess there were other so-called CMNM experiences before that, but this one was so memorable and definitely fit the category. I had gone out to a public park along the shoreline of the bay. It's a semi-deserted spot but there were people around but just not in the immediate vicinity. I stripped naked and discreetly sunbathed. I had taken a couple of beers along to enjoy and so was feeling horny. A cyclist appeared and sort of appeared interested in getting a look, but he left after a bit. That just made me hornier.
  Then a 20-something guy noticed me from a distance and slowly made his way over toward me. I could tell he was intrigued and wanted to confirm that I was actually nude. Eventually, it became obvious to him that I was naked and aroused. It made it deliciously erotic for me to expose myself to him in public, but he kept just getting closer.
  

  

  
  
        Without saying a word, but only gesturing, he urged me to grab my cock and starting jacking. He remained standing and fully clothed in his athlete training pants and a jacket, but he kept keeping closer until finally he was at my feet. He used his own feet to press my legs further apart and he stared down at me, jerking with gusto for his pleasure. I tried sitting up to grasp his obviously erect cock through the soft materials of his pants, but he wouldn't let me do so, practically commanding me with nothing more than grunts to lie back down and to get back to work jerking my own cock. Finally, it was just too much and I came in great spurts all over my chest and belly as I lay on the ground. He smiled and said thanks, leaving me there panting but satisfied. I quickly looked around to see if anybody else had been watching since I had been lost in lust for a few minutes.
  
  

  

         The whole experience only last 15 minutes or so.. but it was so totally hot and unexpected that it was the source for many a long reflection on what had happened and why it has seemed so sublime a sexual encounter. It was the event that caused me to focus on the clothed / unclothed aspects of homosexual attraction and probably what made me identify with CMNM. Obviously, there were a few more elements involved: I was naked in public, and the guy was more than 20 years younger than me.

  posted by: sunbuns (Kelly Lewis)